It coud be helpful if the Planning Center asked some additional questions of the family members...
Maybe another tab on the Info page
Viewing preferences
Public
Family only
No viewing
Would you like embalming for viewing purposes?
Disclaimer: Embalming is not required by law, but may be required for services that include a viewing
Facial Hair
Clean Shaven
Full beard
Go-tee
Mustache only
Beard, but no mustache
Other (Describe)
4. Upload photo for cosmetic purposes
You can actually do this already. I've completely redone my Planning Center Questions.
Go to "Admin->Collaboration->Appearance and Content" You can uncheck any of the default questions you don't want, and use the "Add A Question" box to add your own.